That you have a penis, get erections and get turned on by women or that you have a hairy vag^na, have breasts and feel the urge for s^x, does not mean you are ready. You must realize that readiness is not about age and physical development alone.
So you want to have s^x.
But before you jump into the sack with that girl or boy, ask yourself if you are really ready for s^x.
Here are 7 things that show your readiness:
You know the risks – you must know the risk you are facing by attempting s^x. The risks of pregnancy and S^xually Transmitted Diseases (STD) are there always…
You know how to use contraceptives – if you know the risks, are you aware of the ways of getting ‘safe’ s^x? Do you know how to use condoms and pills to prevent STDs and pregnancy? Ask yourself…
You know what to do if you or your lover gets pregnant –so in the event that contraceptives fail, what would you do? Do you have a plan for the eventuality of pregnancy opt diseases. Will you see a doctor, abort or keep the baby? Tell yourself…
You go for s^x sober – if you only want s^x when you are high or drunk, then you are not ready because you will make bad choices in those periods. You’re less like to play safe…
You have a trusted partner – if you have than guy/girl you trust to treat you right and also ensure you play safe, then you are not ready. If the person is a stranger, please, you’re not ready for s^x…
You are okay with being stuck with your partner for life –sometimes, eventualities happen after s^x….like a pregnancy or an STD. If it happens, will you be willing to marry or at least deal with the issue together? It is important.
You know s^x is about you and the other person – this is important. Can you say no? Are you saying yes because he/she want it? You must reach a point where the desire for sex is not to please that person but to please you both, share something special…
As was noted earlier, s^x is pleasurable but that pleasure comes with consequences and responsibilities.
You are only ready for s^x when you are aware and ready for them.
So, are you ready…?
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