10 signs you’re in an abusive relationship

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Women don’t plan to enter into abusive relationships. In fact, many women who’ve escaped abusive relationships swear to themselves that they will never get into another one, only to find themselves becoming victims of abuse once again.
Sadly, it takes an average of five to seven acts of violence before a woman leaves her abuser. So, why not plan to avoid entering into an abusive relationship in the first place?
A path to a safer, healthier and happier life often starts with a bit of knowledge. If your partner displays the following behaviours, it’s possible you’re in an abusive relationship.
1. He pushes for quick involvement: He comes on strong, claiming, “I’ve never felt loved like this before by anyone.” You get pressured for an exclusive commitment almost immediately.
2. There’s constant jealousy: Your partner is excessively possessive, calls constantly, or visits unexpectedly.
3. He’s controlling: He interrogates you intensely about who you talked to and where you were, checks mileage on the car, keeps all the money or asks for receipts, and insists you ask for permission to go anywhere or do anything.
4. He has very unrealistic expectations: He expects perfection from you and for you to meet their every need.
5. There’s isolation: He tries to cut you off from family and friends, deprives you of a phone or car, or tries to prevent you from holding a job.
6. He blames others for his own mistakes: The boss, family, you — it’s always someone else’s fault if anything goes wrong.
7. He makes everyone else responsible for their feelings: The abuser says, “You make me angry” instead of “I’m angry.” “I wouldn’t get so put off if you wouldn’t…
8. He’s hypersensitive: He’s easily insulted and will often rant and rave about injustices that are just part of life.
9. He’s cruel to animals and children: He kills or punishes animals brutally. He also may expect children to do things beyond their ability or tease them until they cry.
10. His uses “playful” force during sex: He enjoys throwing you down or holding you down against your will; he finds the idea of rape exciting. He intimidates, manipulates or forces you to engage in unwanted sex acts.

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